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Dating Rules Suck - Here's Why You Need Them

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In this video, we talk about dating rules... ya know, the ones that everyone hates to follow.. yes.. dating rules can suck, but I’m going to tell you two reasons why you need them. Especially when you meet someone you really click with. I’m Dr Antonio Borrello, and I’m a psychologist and relationship coach. This channel is all about helping you build great relationships so you can grow happy with the people you love. So, if you’re interested in making your love life the best part of your life, start now by subscribing here. https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=antonioborrello And Join our conversation on social media. Facebook https://www.facebook.com/aborrello2 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/edatingdr/ Twitter https://twitter.com/eDatingDr I'm happy to answer subscriber dating and relationship questions anonymously. Email [email protected]
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Antonio Borrello (8 months ago)
I’d love to know your thoughts on the rules book or other dating rules. Have you practiced any of these rules. Oh and would you like to see a video where I explain the top three dating rules... leave a comment and let's talk about it.
Hunter Collins (8 months ago)
Never was quite sure the rules were right or wrong. Knew a lot of girls who reinterpreted everything to let them do as they wished. But some rules are needed. Like personal standardsn To keep us from messing everything up.
Tu Quynh (8 months ago)
Thanks for the book! I emailed you for getting the winner gift card! Appreciate your generosity
Milly Ashby (8 months ago)
Sori Antonio I never live by rules because I would brake all the rules in every text book to have the person I want to be with in a faithful trustworthy loyal and honest way with nothing to hide my friend love feelings and intuition faithful loyalty and trustworthy are my only rule's okay without those in place one hasn't got a relationship the main one is trust I'm just being honest with you
Rosa Irizarry (8 months ago)
I found you today, and I'm glad I did. Great videos and advice. I would like to see the video about the top 3 dating rules. Thank you!
Rebecca Anderson (8 months ago)
I need to read those books.. I would love to see your video on your three dating rules... Love 💗 your videos.
Luna Luna (8 months ago)
I dated an Aquarius all August 2018, the chemistry was hug for both of us, we love ever minute when we were together, we met 4 times a wake, however when we are not together we kind of argue on the phone. The last two weeks we didn't met. We call and text. Now this is our first three days we didn't talk or text. He said he was afraid of me and that I'm intimidated and that he is afraid that he can't make me happy.....He ended his three years dating with a woman last December and she left him with a salty taste, pulse she had a mental disorder that even her family told him to leave her......Shall I not reach him for know so I give him Space. Last text I send hi Was me telling him that I admire him, respect him and trust him and he said me this emoji 👍.......What is best to do? I'm a Leo.
Austin Ngene (8 months ago)
People that disliked this vedio must tell us why ? Please !
Silver Mont (8 months ago)
Be natural /humble that’s my rule 😂
Zulma (8 months ago)
Thank you Antonio... indeed all these rules rules make you not being your self. The way u are explaining is more acceptable. You have to be yourself. Cause indeed when you get married what would it be. Your fake husband who have to follow rules or you will leave him. Thanks for these video. Be yourself with limits...!
Bamboo Songs (8 months ago)
It sounds like you said not to apply the rules from that book, but to apply other rules. Are these other rules from that book? Or did you make a video on them?
Charlene Enns (8 months ago)
I'll obviously have to read this book to find out what the rules are!
AKLIMA SULTANA EIDA (8 months ago)
Hi sir!!! i'm ur new subscriber. can u explain anything about why people r very interested in chithat but avoid to commit or to be serious. How they manage to get this much time & energy???
AKLIMA SULTANA EIDA (8 months ago)
Charlene Enns Normally for unknown or virtual people we have 2intentions either sex or commitment/marriage. what i understand chichat is the way to judge opposite & after judging stepping forward. but now a days chitchat become 1of the intention apart from sex or marriage. that's y i'm so curious how people manage this huge time & energy!!!!! ur opinion also true Charlene
Charlene Enns (8 months ago)
Hey Aklima if you're talking about online dating it's true for both genders. For myself I want to chat for a while to ensure that we share similar values, goals and humor.
Milly Ashby (8 months ago)
No you were suppose to say it's to protect me from you hahaha nah just joking because I no I can never date or play by Amy rules hahaha
Maureen Nalunga (8 months ago)
Yeah I need to see them
Pauline antidote (8 months ago)
Hi doc any reason you love black T-shirts?
Milly Ashby (8 months ago)
Antonio why does a person have to follow rule's coming out of a txt book because thee only rule i follow is the feeling whats in one's heart isn't that's simple and logical because if you really love thee opposite sex deeply and he always takes one breath away and make's one smile because of all the stupid thing's one can see him doing even when he know that she is always thinking of him and nobody else then why do we have to have rules only because I ain't good at following rule's and ain't rules made to be broken because i no all the rules would be broken except one ? You guess okay because I just want to be myself that's the way it should be my friend because they are looking at the real me and if the opposite sex can't take me as I am well then they can just be on there fucken bike see one rule broken already hahaha sori for my bad language cause I can't stay serious on a topic like this specially when I can see the humour side of the topic far out why can't people just be honest straight forward with how they feel and take it slowly and get to understand them plus get to know them better because jumping straight into bed that means to say one is thinking with his or there other brain instead of with one honest brain true or false but one thing I can't stand is someone trying to rule my everyday movements my life and I can't stand and won't put up with someone who's jealous of me oh boy it truly sucks when one is to straight up and honest with everybody honestly Antonio fuck the rules hahaha just be honest and judge there own feelings hey I should be your dictator in honesty hahaha
Blue Moon (8 months ago)
Yes, I would like to see a video on your dating rules. Rules should be used to protect yourself and to gauge a guy’s interest and not used to win him over.
Hunter Collins (8 months ago)
Absolutely yes! Please tell us what your dating rules are. And maybe you could give us more than three? You are so balanced, down to earth and make so much sense. It follows, then, that your rules will, too. Thank you!
Ginger Tillson (8 months ago)
Yes I would like to see the video
Sallyma Ndow (8 months ago)
Yeah I all true an perfect cause I do practice them an it's work's xxx
Andrea Carpenter (8 months ago)
So what are the rules?!
Bette Johnson (8 months ago)
Always helps me thanks
Ima Limabean (8 months ago)
Many years ago, i was crazy about a man. We had been dating for a couple of months, and i believe he was totally falling for me. A friend suggested reading "The Rules" book. I later realized the advice presented totally ruined the natural spontaneity and flow happening in our relationship. I pulled back while he was coming forward; which made him hesitate. It turned into a fear based cycle for us both; as neither one wanted to get hurt. I had another chance, but blew it again. He invited me to one of his concerts. Before the show, i had ordered take out Chinese for supper. I neglected the deep urge to send my unopened fortune cookie up to the stage; so he could read it at first chance. But i didn't do it; afraid it would appear too " foward" and scare him away. Then...after the show as i was helping him tear down his instrument, he mentioned that a girl he had met recently in the crowd had given him a fortune cookie. My heart sank. I could tell by his voice inflection that it meant a lot to him. Surprised, I secretly opened the cookie that i never gave him. It said " there is love close to you is worthy of persuing". He ended up dating the spontaneous aquaintence that had sent her cookie forward. Moral of the story: Share your cookie!
Ima Limabean (7 months ago)
+Tanya Coupe in the end we end up being who we are 😘
Tanya Coupe (8 months ago)
Ima Limabean, that's so sad. 😢 I've crushed on & spent a lot of great time with a man for several years & was so careful not to be bold. A few months ago he took me out for Thai & when he opened his fortune cookie it said "someone loves you, open your eyes". Well, I nearly spit out my saki. Instead of looking him in the eye & smiling, I looked down & brushed it off! The next month he cancelled plans with me, saying he met someone. Talk about heartbreak! If only I'd been myself instead of walking on eggshells for so long, afraid to scare him.
Ginger Tillson (8 months ago)
Yes I have an interest in the video where you explain the 3 dating rules
tracy marie briare (8 months ago)
This is great! I like your take on this here. The honeymoon phase is great. I try so hard to not acknowledge love till after that part but easier said then done. ... I have been fooled before. 😂 love the red flag b-roll btw. Haha 😆 hahahah “I will change them” 😂😂 omg love it.
zenmaiden1 (8 months ago)
I would love to hear the rules to keep from falling for someone I have a huge attraction for.
dev0n james (8 months ago)
zenmaiden1, just remember every relationship is temporary and most of your attraction will fade away. also stop watching romantic movies and reading romance novels, they're the only traps keeping us in this false narrative of love.
ohh (8 months ago)
Great video🤗
Ginger Tillson (8 months ago)
Yes I would love to see the rules that you have
Sandra Fabian (8 months ago)
I have to say that some of the rules I started applying on my boyfriend of almost a year, who is very self-centered. His behavior has changed tremendously. He now wakes up in the middle of the night and calls me because he can't go to sleep until he hears my voice!
dev0n james (8 months ago)
sandra fabian, I knew you would.
Sandra Fabian (8 months ago)
dev0n james, I totally agree!
dev0n james (8 months ago)
sandra fabian, a man should never care about himself above a woman, good job keeping him wrapped around your finger.
Sandra Fabian (8 months ago)
I have the book right on my night stand right now!

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