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3 Tips on How to Attract Women as an Introvert - Dating Tips For Introverts

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One of the best dating tips for introverted guys is to realize that there’s nothing wrong with being an introvert. You can still attract women, get laid and get a girlfriend even if you are an introvert. The only thing you really need to do, is to be a confident introvert, rather than being an insecure introvert. As you may know, women are attracted to confidence, but aren’t attracted to insecurity in guys. So, you have to make sure that you are confident around women. The fact is, many girls do like quiet guys and even introverted guys, as long as the guy is confident. So, in the video above, I go into detail on the following 3 dating tips for introverted guys: 1. Change how you describe yourself. 2. Stop focusing on yourself and focus on others. 3. Understand that less is often more, when it comes to attracting women. If you would like to learn more about how to get a girlfriend if you’re an introvert, make sure to subscribe to my channel by clicking this link: https://www.youtube.com/user/DanBaconTheModernMan?sub_confirmation=1 You can also learn all of my best techniques for attracting and picking up women, by reading my ebook The Flow, or listening to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio: https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Remember: There’s nothing wrong with being an introverted guy. The only thing that you need to make sure of is that you are confident enough to talk to women and confident enough to make a move when there is a great opportunity in front of you (i.e. to get her number, kiss her, get to sex, arrange a date and get into a relationship). Cheers Dan Bacon
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Miroslav Mandic (24 days ago)
I am a totally insecure introvert, I can not even talk to girls I don't see attractive and even to men, I just can't talk to anyone....
KPEC3arrival (2 months ago)
I can't believe Dan Bacon doesn't have a billion views or more. He is the only dating expert who has intelligent advice that makes sense. All of the other dating experts are a bunch of players who make up unrealistic scenarios or have some secret finessed angle that cannot be used by anyone other than that specific dating expert. Also, I've purchased Dan's Flow program, and his perspective and techiniques are brilliant. I'm not affiliated with him in any way, except from his media btw. If anyone thinks Dan's info won't work, my suggestion is to give his way a second try.
George Pavy (3 months ago)
Thank you again, Dan. I used to believe that I had to overcome my introverted tendencies. I now realize that I can achieve what I want (with women and relationships, as well) when I play to my strengths, and give myself plenty of alone time to recharge my batteries, so to speak.
Plutarch Heavensbee (3 months ago)
I think this girl likes me but she is a barrista. She might just be acting nice because she has to. But I feel chemistry. It's strange.
John Haywood (4 months ago)
Thanks Dan, I am an introvert and I've gotten so much advice that all says BE AN EXTROVERT TO GET WOMEN and it's not who I am and frankly I have no desire to be highly outgoing. But this video that you put out Really reassured me. Thanks bro.
Shakerhood69 (5 months ago)
Thanks for the great info.
Sartre Camus (6 months ago)
Okay but how do I attract introverted women, and i mean.. ONLY introverted women?
Dan Bacon (6 months ago)
Good idea. Will do. In the meantime, this video might be helpful to you (it's about shy women, who are different to introverted women, but you will still gain a lot of insight from it): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9w0L_HPWz8
Potso Molebatsi (7 months ago)
You just describe things I do, from now on things are gonna be different. Thank you Dan.
Dan Bacon (7 months ago)
Make it happen Potso! Enjoy the great times ahead with women! BTW: More videos on the way...stay tuned.
Marc Spector (7 months ago)
This is the best video Ive seen about social interactions with women, so far. Thanks Dan for your honesty, genuineness, and no B-S approach to the "game of love". Thanks Man.
FreddyGaming (7 months ago)
@Dan Bacon My gf left the house because I was suffocating her but we never broke up, she is seeing another guy at work after one week, she hasn't told she is trying to hide it but i found out, yesterday she had a tough day and she came crying to my hug and she told me that when she settles down we will find it for us. Do you have any idea how to deal with this?
Grande925 (7 months ago)
Dan..!Better than a bad boy is a great programme! Keep on the great work
Anima Libera (7 months ago)
Hey Dan, I feel like my girlfriend keeps going cold because there is another guy in the picture, cause I remained confident but it didnt do anything. How do you handle these type of situations?
Nick Monks (7 months ago)
What I love about Dan's stuff is that he's constantly reminding you that "it's actually a lot more simple than that", and it really is.
Theophagous (7 months ago)
I was being the confident introvert and everything was working well, until I screwed up because I lost control over myself and tried to be around her too often, so she started to pull away. Worse than that, I failed all her tests, even though I was aware I was being tested, because I was very tired from lack of sleep that week due to my exam preparations, and couldn't find any energy to make decisions or say no when I had to. Moral of the story: take good care of your health and sleep well, and avoid being around a girl you like when you're in a stressful period, because you're bound to make stupid mistakes that could kill your charm and charisma.
ShroomFire (7 months ago)
Hey Dan, I really enjoy watching your videos but need some advice on my relationship. So, my ex and I dated for a year and I cut things off because I felt like our love was not worth it any more for what I was trying to accomplish (school and sports). About a few days later we hooked up but became distant soon after. A couple weeks go by and she hooks up with another guy, then I explain to her how much I miss her and love her still; so we got back together. To be honest, it was a temporary relationship to fill both of our voids and it failed in just about 3 weeks. Now, it has been 3 months since our separation from our short void-filling relationship and I want her back. This is because I have realized what I did wrong to her and how much I actually do like her for who she is. However, I started begging and pleading (making the usual mistake of being desperate), which drove her off. The catch though is she said that she still loves me and wants to get back together in the future, but wants to experience other things, likely men (so basically just a bunch of mixed ideas from her). She still responds to my snapchats if I send them, but in cold little 1 or 2 word phrases (mostly just "okay"). I waited a few days to contact her again, and I starting talking to her confidently and in a flirtatious manner (over snapchat). I said to her the other day in school "my future self 10 years from now is still waiting for a reply on snapchat" and laughed, but she just gave me a cold shoulder and showed no emotions. So, I tried flirting with her on snapchat at the end of she day and she was still replying in a dry way. I asked her what was wrong and that I was not trying to get back with her. She replied by saying that she needs time to herself. I'm going to give her a week and call her by phone then, but I really don't know if it will work. I do know that she is talking to other guys, and I don't want her to hook up with someone right as I want to make a phone call to her. We still go to school together and see each other every day; I'm also on the tennis team that she helps for, increasing the times I see her. The best news is that this next week I have completely off due to spring break, but I still have to see her every day at tennis. She also has more time to hook up with other guys, which I feel will defeat the purpose of giving her a week of space (around 7-8 days). Any advice?
o milli (7 months ago)
I agree. Confidence and connecting with the girl is all you need
M (7 months ago)
This doesn’t pertain to this video but what would you suggest when trying to get your ex back that you live with and is shut down after we had sex and we were intimate for while back in January? I’ve def made the mistakes that shouldn’t be made and do still every once in awhile. She doesn’t want a relationship right now and is so hot and cold. What can I do
Ishan Roy Chowdhury (7 months ago)
Thanx Dan! I am in college and I've been following you for a year now! I've changed alot thanks to you, I can't pay for the Flow but I appreciate all your videos!
Ozzy Brooks (7 months ago)
Any tips for making a girl with social anxiety feel comfortable?
Dan Bacon (7 months ago)
This should help you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9w0L_HPWz8 I'll put that (making a girl feel comfortable) on my list of vids to make.
Scathach (7 months ago)
My girlfriend broke up with me because she can’t decide between me or her ex. She was in a 5 year relationship with her ex and he is doing his best to steal her away from me. She tells me she still loves him but likes me a lot. She is a very beautiful girl. If I attempt the No Contact rule she just go to her ex and forget about me. I don’t what to do please help
Vaunomax (7 months ago)
I’d honestly let her go, you don’t know what happened during those 5 years and if he’s still in the picture and show still loves him, she’s gonna go back to him no matter what you do
Dan Bacon (7 months ago)
This will help you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DelQO5y83Hw
anthippo91 (7 months ago)
Any tips on sexual anxiety I’m good looking fella workout take care of myself etc I’m always able to attract women just struggle with sealing the deal mostly due to my anxiety.more to the point I feel like I given myself phycological Ed by way overthinking the situation when I’m with women.
Dan Bacon (7 months ago)
Have you ever tried Viagra when having sex with new women? A friend of mine had that problem and he'd break up a tablet into 3 pieces and take a piece about an hour before having sex with a new woman. Said it worked for him. My approach has always been to relax and enjoy the sex, rather than thinking about how it's going. Works for me.
AKConnor49 (7 months ago)
Do you have any tips on how to make a girl laugh + Knowing what to say/start conversations? Great vid as always
Dan Bacon (7 months ago)
Thanks RockStarWolf! Yes, I have 100s of those examples in my programs at themodernman.com, but I will make some videos with other examples soon. I've put your request on my list of vids to make. Cheers, Dan
Hornfluffy1964 (7 months ago)
Be like Clint Eastwood
leonard weems (7 months ago)
Just want to say thank you Dan! Been following your advice for a few years now and it has paid off tremendously with women and life in general. Keep it up buddy! Its much appreciated!
Dan Bacon (7 months ago)
Thanks Leonard! Much appreciated! I'm so happy to hear about your success. It only gets better from where you are now. BTW: More videos on the way!

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