In this video, I discuss 6 rules that you should follow when dating over the age of 50.
01:29:16 - #1 Don't Bond Over Your Baggage
03:18:09 - #2 DOn't Call Him
04:21:15 - #3 Don't Have Sex
06:15:05 - #4 Stop beings so picky
08:17:08 - #5 Flirting
10:32:14 - #6 Let the conversation flow
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I'm a man 57 dating a woman exclusively 10 months now. She is wonderful and I truly love her. However she is very jealous, I don't know where I stand. How do I get her to open up to me fully??
Thanks Kevin the Happy Handyman 😊 👍
Unlike many men my age, 55, I am not looking for one night stands. I never have and I never will, and because of that, my standards are extremely high because I'm looking for the love of a lifetime and not a piece of meat.
I'm glad that she is happy...and wants to help other women, but ....there were a lot of cringy moments regarding her "advice". She meant well, but men over 50 are not stupid...they lived life too and had their bad experiences..trust issues are top and foremost, so fake smiling and pretending to be fascinated at everything he says is just too much! Why can't we be more approachable? And not every man wants someone touching them and being "clingy"...and most men know, just like we do, when a compliment is sincere! I personally don't date as I am not interested in men who are just as fake as the women, yes, they are out there...I want to see how a man really treats his family, his friends, the neighbors, people on the street, animals...those tell me a lot that's important for me to know. I don't want a "Perfect" match...I want a man who can be a man without faking it. No one is meant to be alone...as for frequency wave forms or sending energy into the universe...WOW! I don't have antennas, or a foil hat so I guess that rules me out...lol Good Luck everyone with your search.
It's just really funny how much negative feedback this video got because of waiting for sex part. Men, most women don't want to be single after 50. Sorry to disappoint you.
Also this video is for women not men. 😂
She should be giving men advice on women, not acting like she knows the ins and outs of being a man. She cannot tell you what a man thinks/feels/senses. She is using her own experience and applying that to all men, as if we are all the same. I had to turn it off 6 minutes in. Lots of general advice for women of all ages, but things change with age. First bad advice from her, "don't call him". If he asked you and its a call for a second date, then yes I agree. But there are plenty of guys who are single because they are terrible at the cold approach or insecure. These guys would very much appreciate you making the call if you are interested. I could go on, but people believe what ever they want to believe regardless. Good luck to everyone though.
The last guy I dated had a vision alright, one of my legs spread open! I just wanted a man to wrap his arms around me and love me, now I am alone. I'm pretty sexy but can't seem to find a guy that wants who I am instead of how I spread...WHAT IS THE SECRET!?!?!?
I have a question. Why is it considered not ok for someone in a relationship to be naked around their (opposite sex) platonic friend?
I don't get it, what's so wrong about a girlfriend or wife or boyfriend of husband being naked around their opposite sex platonic friend? And what's so wrong about a person being naked around their opposite sex platonic friend (who's dating or married)?
Nudity has nothing to do with sex, and as along as nothing sexual happens, then it's perfectly ok to do that as along as both platonic friends are comfortable being naked around each other.
I am 52 this year. My ex told me that I am old ugly women no man will love me again. That’s make me so depressed. I tried to suicide 3 times since August 2018. He is the one cheating why he make my life so hard ?
You know I think you're totally wrong about advising women not to call a guy that they are very interested in you know guys need to feel like they're wanted also not every guy is like a horny dog running around in heat I'm going to pursue and go after every female he thinks he wants me myself don't want to waste my time energy and money on a woman that's not interested in me and if she calls me back and Sue's me a little that gives me a clear sign that she's worth wasting my time on did you ever think of that
Wow! Not all women think your way chick!! I'm over 60, widowed, been 'hanging out' with an old friend. I didn't want to get married, don't want children (mine are grown), have my own house. All I wanted was a companion to share adventures with, hang out with, have dinner/lunch with, just spend time with. I don't like to be ignored, figure a man doesn't either. Your time is the most valuable thing you have to share, so if you care for someone share it.
My list was & is short: someone to have adventures with, hang out with, get to know. Then a partner to grow old with, share our bodies & experience. With NO marriage requirements.
I don't get why women want to be totally helpless when totally honest works better. I don't need a man to support, I don't want one to support me. Help each other is great. Meet each other's needs, be there for each other. If my friend wasn't in a committed relationship of his choice, unwilling to release his ex, he'd be perfect. But... he is so I'm not. I'm not in kindergarten or high school, I'm not into games, just straight forward no BS is great!!! And yes I am a woman
You're not a nice woman if you are "hanging out" with a man that is in a committed relationship with his ex. Obviously, he's not all that committed if he hangs out with you, though. Maybe that's his way of keeping you at arms length.
Please make a YouTube video specifically on FLIRTING. I was raised in a very conservative home and married very young--and that was 50 years ago! Now dating again at 70 - so this is all new to me. Love you lots!
I dated an old handsome man and the more I get to know him the more I like him. I am glad I chased him first then he returned back.
That is why there is a process and a period of dating. So you know them. Chase the one you like and you will find out if you have that bite or not, I mean if it works. You will not know until you know than wander. 😁
Men...don't marry women. This is the playbook they use to snag men and their resources. Avoid marriage. Avoid co-habitating. If you are lonely get a dog. Train the dog. There's a reason they say a dog is a man's best friend...dogs won't divorce you (70% of divorces are initiated by women). Dogs won't cheat on you. Dogs are happy to see you EVERY SINGLE DAY. You will never have to pay alimony, child support, or give half your assets to a dog. If you eat a big steak and have some left, your dog will appreciate the scraps. Your dog won't nag you. Your dog won't have a list of jobs for you. Dogs are far superior to a woman in every aspect except one. If you want sex, go have sex with any of these 40-50 year olds...it's easy. Then go back to your peaceful life.
It's time to climb down off your pedistall. Your sexual value has peaked and is heading south. So anytime you make him wait for sex he knows that the sex isn't worth the wait. Be an adult about adult issues, we are not in highschool anymore.
+Blake Q Too bad you don't make sense. What does make sense . If it is a negative attack, your character speaks volumes in the dating world. Whether you date men or women, that character eventually surfaces.
Kevin, that's funny. Men's sexuality peaks at 18, women's peak in their forties, so I think she's got a right to be way up higher on that pedestal than you. As men get further away from their peak, the one's that can't hold an erection look for younger women, hoping that their youth can give them the boost they need. Unfortunately, the younger women soon tire of hearing things like "this has never happened to me before." BTW, women hate men that can't spell or at least have the courtesy to use spellcheck.
Marriage is a man made thing that does not work. Most men over fifty do not want a woman over thirty. Hahaha. And that is true and you all know it. This lady is full of it. Sounds to me like a gold digger. Her attitude about sex is that only men like it. Who is she kidding. Most of those old bags are so desperate the first item on their grocery list is a cucumber. Hahaha. This was absolute garbage
I have a man returning from 40 years ago. We have a history, live at a great distance, and not sure if I should invite him to stay in my guest room. We have been talking for over a year. He was married but not now.
Itsa case of dammed if you do
Dammed if dont.
If you dont tell the truth you are a (called) a liar.
If you tell the truth you don't get a date.
The only good thing, in this vid, is don't be so picky. Like if they're a drunk or irresponsible fair enough. But owning an old car, by choice, ffs, what's that all about.
Any man that knows his self worth, knows about market value. A man in his 50's has twice the market value as a women in their 50's. So, a man in 50's will not chase a women his age because men are visual and younger women look better (higher market value). It sounds like Jaki coddles her man which gives me the thought she is plastic. Plastic women are the one's that look good with makeup, fake boobs, painted nails, dyed hair, push-up bras, and surgery. Stay away from them, all that fake appearance costs money, they are gold diggers. I can hear the line right now. "Well, you want me to look good, don't you?" Jaki is right about the sex. You don't want a girl that has taken too many trips around the block.
Everyone has their opinion re this video over 50. Those who aren't over 50 your day is coming. I am enjoying sex very much so! I'm 55 to be exact & dating younger 29, 30 and 38. Safe sex on top of that...I didn't chase either they pursued me! But I would chase a guy why the hell not? If I dropped dead doing the horizontal with him so be it! What a way to go! If guys think women are easy cause we chase -what the hell do we call men who have 1 night stands and have their wallet taken?, lol! I still have my periods and don't need any lubes to get me going. I'm sure my arid days are coming, but until then I say, "ride on girls" ! We are older, wiser not dumb and dead! Whether you want to be in a relationship or not we all have baggage in some cases trunks. It's how we carry our baggage/trunks! Enjoy yourself -don't criticize anyone for having or not having it over 50!!!
OMG - Don't call him and Don't have sex UNTIL you know what his long term plan is for you???? Stopped Watching.
Married twice and divorced twice - why would I want to get engaged? I've got money, have my own part time business that pays very well and love to travel and am active. I want a fricken girlfriend (and yes I will be exclusive were 50 for goodness sakes) - not another wife to order me around like a puppy. FYI - guys over 50....if you are at least a 6 (out of 10) you can part time date women in their late 30s and early 40s - no its not creepy - they like we are not crazy risk takers or loose cannons and usually own some stuff.
I am a man. I have been divorced for 18 years. last year I tried dating checked out dating sites. what happened to me a lot of young women approached me on the dating sites wanting a relationship. but I was too smart for that because I knew they were only after one thing a free ride. I dated someone my age not through a dating site just buy a chance meeting. all she could talk about was her three ex-husbands! that relationship only lasted 2 months. I find it relaxing less drama to not date! in my experience women are confused. on the dating sites when you click on a woman you think you might have something in common with they like a man that's funny sensible makes him laugh go for long walks. But in reality that's all a lie they don't want that. so I stopped dating. Now I hire a professional. much easier no drama less stress I love my life. I would love to meet a woman my age and live the rest of my life with my friend lover companion. I believe all men and women want that. I just haven't found it yet and I am not going to bother to try looking for it anymore. Too much drama.
Haha, What state do you live in? FYI, most women wouldn't want to know about your professional women, not because we don't respect those women, but because of what those women might be bringing to you via so much exposure to who knows what. Eew.
This is not dating advice..its just manipulative techniques for women to hoodwink men into marriage..Men..wake up to their tricks. Unlike Men ,women just cant remain single to work on achieving personal goals and been amazing individuals..its not in their nature...theyd rather be energy vampires.
I really took issue on several points on this video... I for one have been married twice and have been single for the past 20 years...I have grown into my thinking that going into a date or meet up with no expectations as it is human nature to find faults in why the person will not measure up... Celebrating the differences is how I have evolved into the opposite Neanderthal thinking of what my parents have taught me... I have the mindset of looking at me when things don't work out with a woman and what I did wrong in that relationship so I don't repeat the mistakes of my past... Im not interested in being married again but I am interested in finding a life partner who share similar interests and open to new experiences.... Im not asking to go sky diving with someone, although Ive been in the past but hey lets take a ride on a motorcycle and visit places we've have never seen before... I will be 60 on Jan 24th, 19 and believe the journey has just begun for me.... I welcome any comments positive or negative that will help further my view as I am a teacher and student of my life's journey.... Peace Love and Respect to all....
hey for all you women watching this video, as a man who has been married for 28 years and now separated, personally speaking,my opinion is anyone who remarries is a sucker for punishment, if it didn't work out before why go thru it and be hurt again??? any women who thinks a man over 50 doesn't know exactly what to say to get you under the covers is a foolish women!! we can and will say what you want to hear just to get you under the covers, an experienced man knows what you want to hear, every smart man who has been there and done it will not commit again because any smart man who has lost his money and kids and home the first time and does it again is a sucker for punishment also, as a man I would just want a companion to share some quality time with only, no girlfriend, no commitment, no where are you, why haven't you called, why this, why that bs, that's the biggest turn of for a man because that's exactly what the ex wife used to do and that will remind us instantly of the ex, you women can't avoid this if you expect a commitment from a man! I will never ever remarry any women even If she was younger and hot looking, no way, I will be faithful to a companion because that's me, I have never cheated on my ex but I will never want or have a live in girlfriend especially a divorcee, the last thing any man wants is another man's left overs, I might sound rude and if I am I'm sorry but it's the truth, I'm being honest.there is a joke us men are all familiar with and it goes like this, what do you call a women who has lost 90 percent of her brain? a divorcee!! we know 80 percent of divorced women are going thru mid life crisis especially 40 and over, we know you all want to be 18 again and find love again we know all this so what do you think the first thing we men will tell you over a romantic dinner??? oh you look so beautiful?? you have the most infectious smile, your eyes are georgous etc etc, we know what you are waiting to hear so wake up and smell the coffee because after a few weeks or months guess what! well be saying its been really nice knowing you I can't stay in this relationship because I'm falling in love with you but I can't do it, I'm so sorry, as bad as it sounds this is a fact and it happens every single day, I hope I haven't hurt any girls feeling by saying what I said but I wish you all the very best and hope you do find true love
Oh, you so need an education. Many women over 40 don't want to be 18 again. Many women stay married for the greater part of the lives to do the right thing by their families and raise children that will contribute to the world. We are not used goods or some man's left overs. When our duties are done, we want to have a second chance at life as the women we have become while essentially growing up ourselves in our family units. After 50 and divorced, we know what we've been missing, and it's not our youth. We are ready to make decisions that don't always end in taking the short end of the stick to allow others around us to flourish while we wait. Having a partner in the new adventure who is on the same page would be fun. Don't get me wrong. When I'm free, I plan on dating until I can honestly say I've found the perfect playmate. Not a perfect person, just a person that knows how to enjoy life and the intimacy that comes with being in a committed relationship. I feel sorry for men that chase youth. They have a world of pain in front of them and they may never learn to love life. I hope I don't run into anyone as cynical as you. I'm sorry for whatever pain you've had that has made you this way.
I was married for 26 years and then separated as well. Not everyone wants marriage again. Companionship would be ideal for a lot of us over 50. Finding that person who feels the same is difficult. Dealing with loneliness is easier!
Hey Jaki, cool video. Couple of things to run by you. My last relationship - close to 10 years ago (we went out for close to a year), then she got busted - she was married. Blew my trust big time. Last date I went on, about 2 years ago, took her out for lunch on my motorbike, whole time she was social media - where she was having lunch, no cross table conversation. Really pissed me off. I live in New Zealand, this happen else where as well?. Just about ready to give up, I feel I don't even try anymore.
Garth, don't give up. The same thing happened to me, except it was a man and I only saw him for 4 months, but it shook me to think I trusted him...they are out there! Make sure you meet family and friends...that will tell you a LOT! LOL And I ride a bike too...bet New Zealand is a cool place to ride...
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