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6 Rules for Dating Over 50| Engaged at Any Age - Coach Jaki

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In this video, I discuss 6 rules that you should follow when dating over the age of 50. 01:29:16 - #1 Don't Bond Over Your Baggage 03:18:09 - #2 DOn't Call Him 04:21:15 - #3 Don't Have Sex 06:15:05 - #4 Stop beings so picky 08:17:08 - #5 Flirting 10:32:14 - #6 Let the conversation flow ****************************************************************** LEARN MORE HERE: Discover your Soulmate IQ at Discover your Soulmate IQ at http://jakisabourin.com/soulmate-assessment/summit-gift-2/ When you take the Soulmate IQ, you'll also receive my Feminine Exercise along with your Frequency Assessment to help you shift further into alignment so that you can Fast Track your ability to manifest your Soulmate! Grab my free e-book at https://www.jakisabourin.com/ebook-yt SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL: http://www.youtube.com/c/EngagedAtAnyAge LET'S CONNECT: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/JakiSabourinCoach/ Twitter – https://twitter.com/jakisabourin Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jakisabourin/
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FreedMan76 (2 days ago)
I just have one rule: NEVER date any woman over 40. They have nothing to offer.
Sami Keith (4 days ago)
Awww! I love this
Ingrid Weiner (4 days ago)
Rule 1. No one wants you. Be independant.
Les Hardley (9 days ago)
I'm 52 my secret to dating over 50 is dating women under 40🤣🤣 unless you are a widow, left an abusive relationship or your husband left you. Why are you single at 50?? Hypergamy backfired??😉😉
Amy P (11 days ago)
I'm jaded to a point. I won't put up with any crap anymore. I learned to love and respect myself for who I am. I won't change for anyone, not my body, my face or anything else.
Gardner Happy (11 days ago)
They want a nurse with a purse, housekeeper, cook and a slave. No thanks. Love being single after being with a narc for 25 years.
Suz Phillips (12 days ago)
I want to know what plastic she's had. 'Cause the voice sounds 65 years old.
Appalachian Packmule (13 days ago)
Rule #1: Don't.
Carlo Leodoro (14 days ago)
Bring copy of uour 4o1 k. Copy of bank account. If got zero. In bank the lady the lady will Lieve.
Tony Rowan (14 days ago)
I'm over 50 and if I became single again for whatever reason the last thing I would want is to start dating again! One go round is enough for me.
Tony Rowan (14 days ago)
I only need one rule for dating over 50! DON'T!!!
Dear Sybersue (14 days ago)
I got married for the second time on my 50th birthday!
Lee Workman (14 days ago)
I am 52 this year. My ex told me that I am old ugly women no man will love me again. That’s make me so depressed. I tried to suicide 3 times since August 2018. He is the one cheating why he make my life so hard ?
Andrea Santos (14 days ago)
you're so sweet god bless you u remind me of my mom I wish I could of had her tell me this but unfortunately she died when I was 7but now I'm 27😢💔
ToddtheExploder (14 days ago)
And will someone please ask this woman to STOP TALKING?!
Anna Mossity (9 days ago)
ToddtheExploder, agreed!
ToddtheExploder (12 days ago)
I was trying to be polite, ma’am. Your voice is incessantly grating.
Kenneth Wilson (16 days ago)
It is not awkward if I show interest and you call me, if I show interest and you are silent, I’m moving on..... Get your ideals and dealbreakers on the table
Ralph Stadler (16 days ago)
You know I think you're totally wrong about advising women not to call a guy that they are very interested in you know guys need to feel like they're wanted also not every guy is like a horny dog running around in heat I'm going to pursue and go after every female he thinks he wants me myself don't want to waste my time energy and money on a woman that's not interested in me and if she calls me back and Sue's me a little that gives me a clear sign that she's worth wasting my time on did you ever think of that
Ann Harrison (18 days ago)
Huh!!!!!!!!
Lisa x (18 days ago)
Omg this all common flippin sense 😒
Michele T (18 days ago)
Its not exciting if you live were I live and the men are like they are. And I've had one of those ex wife men talkers and he just didn't talk about her he cussed her and I just had enough
linda frady (18 days ago)
Wow! Not all women think your way chick!! I'm over 60, widowed, been 'hanging out' with an old friend. I didn't want to get married, don't want children (mine are grown), have my own house. All I wanted was a companion to share adventures with, hang out with, have dinner/lunch with, just spend time with. I don't like to be ignored, figure a man doesn't either. Your time is the most valuable thing you have to share, so if you care for someone share it. My list was & is short: someone to have adventures with, hang out with, get to know. Then a partner to grow old with, share our bodies & experience. With NO marriage requirements. I don't get why women want to be totally helpless when totally honest works better. I don't need a man to support, I don't want one to support me. Help each other is great. Meet each other's needs, be there for each other. If my friend wasn't in a committed relationship of his choice, unwilling to release his ex, he'd be perfect. But... he is so I'm not. I'm not in kindergarten or high school, I'm not into games, just straight forward no BS is great!!! And yes I am a woman
Lavern Reynolds (20 days ago)
Please make a YouTube video specifically on FLIRTING. I was raised in a very conservative home and married very young--and that was 50 years ago! Now dating again at 70 - so this is all new to me. Love you lots!
Tammy Stemper (22 days ago)
You keep sniffing?...
I dated an old handsome man and the more I get to know him the more I like him. I am glad I chased him first then he returned back. That is why there is a process and a period of dating. So you know them. Chase the one you like and you will find out if you have that bite or not, I mean if it works. You will not know until you know than wander. 😁
Andy (22 days ago)
Men...don't marry women. This is the playbook they use to snag men and their resources. Avoid marriage. Avoid co-habitating. If you are lonely get a dog. Train the dog. There's a reason they say a dog is a man's best friend...dogs won't divorce you (70% of divorces are initiated by women). Dogs won't cheat on you. Dogs are happy to see you EVERY SINGLE DAY. You will never have to pay alimony, child support, or give half your assets to a dog. If you eat a big steak and have some left, your dog will appreciate the scraps. Your dog won't nag you. Your dog won't have a list of jobs for you. Dogs are far superior to a woman in every aspect except one. If you want sex, go have sex with any of these 40-50 year olds...it's easy. Then go back to your peaceful life.
Radio London (25 days ago)
I'm 56 female. Gave up.
Chris Edwards (26 days ago)
Paying your own way is even more attractive for a man.
Kevin Cooke (26 days ago)
It's time to climb down off your pedistall. Your sexual value has peaked and is heading south. So anytime you make him wait for sex he knows that the sex isn't worth the wait. Be an adult about adult issues, we are not in highschool anymore.
SURY MUKHERJEE (27 days ago)
Very sweet video. Thanks.
Brian Koops (29 days ago)
I hate the word soulmate....to females it means a guy who'll pay for everything....when you won't, it's game over.
rashida7777 (30 days ago)
Lol...Why are dissatisfied men in this channel?
Carol Chung (1 month ago)
Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its is very exciting sharing I really love it of enjoy it, thanks so much lovely lady much love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💋✌👍👏👏👏🌷🌺🌹
C Connelly (1 month ago)
Why do men over 50 disappear after a couple of dates if you won't sleep with him?
Cynthia Ruffino (1 month ago)
Great advice TY
Claire McDaniel (1 month ago)
Can't women over 50 look their age?
Xianne027 (1 month ago)
Thanks Jaki. I learned a lot.
Heather Way (1 month ago)
Oh hell, why would anyone even want to date an old guy over 50??? Seriously???
Heather Way (1 month ago)
Moral of the story: don’t bother! Hellshit, why? ?
william tombs (1 month ago)
@ 50 hopefully you are stable enough to not need a relationship of compromises. Persue fantasies and ask for what you want gentlemen. There is nothing wrong with dying alone.
william tombs (1 month ago)
How to con men into buying an untested used product...hmmm
Bob Henry (1 month ago)
Marriage is a man made thing that does not work. Most men over fifty do not want a woman over thirty. Hahaha. And that is true and you all know it. This lady is full of it. Sounds to me like a gold digger. Her attitude about sex is that only men like it. Who is she kidding. Most of those old bags are so desperate the first item on their grocery list is a cucumber. Hahaha. This was absolute garbage
Shelley Becker (1 month ago)
how do you explain family issues.. baggage... not ex baggage but parents, kids etc
Christine Klutts (1 month ago)
Bwhahaha hope they like sandpaper vjj with menopause I could give a f*** it's an aggravation I'm glad I'm single and I plan on staying that way and raising my kid.
Davidea Siebert (1 month ago)
I have a man returning from 40 years ago. We have a history, live at a great distance, and not sure if I should invite him to stay in my guest room. We have been talking for over a year. He was married but not now.
Robert Dawson (1 month ago)
This video is for women whose goal is to marry a man over fifty
joey racanelli (1 month ago)
First tip men dont like plastic lips.
Ed Bear (1 month ago)
Women are whores
Boris Karloff (1 month ago)
Itsa case of dammed if you do Dammed if dont. If you dont tell the truth you are a (called) a liar. If you tell the truth you don't get a date. The only good thing, in this vid, is don't be so picky. Like if they're a drunk or irresponsible fair enough. But owning an old car, by choice, ffs, what's that all about.
Chump Change (1 month ago)
Any man that knows his self worth, knows about market value. A man in his 50's has twice the market value as a women in their 50's. So, a man in 50's will not chase a women his age because men are visual and younger women look better (higher market value). It sounds like Jaki coddles her man which gives me the thought she is plastic. Plastic women are the one's that look good with makeup, fake boobs, painted nails, dyed hair, push-up bras, and surgery. Stay away from them, all that fake appearance costs money, they are gold diggers. I can hear the line right now. "Well, you want me to look good, don't you?" Jaki is right about the sex. You don't want a girl that has taken too many trips around the block.
Tommy Pickren (1 month ago)
Ankles behind ears, a good thing
Mark Johnson (1 month ago)
Women are crazy
Mark Johnson (1 month ago)
Was Jackie a guy?
Ann Harrison (1 month ago)
I'm a female looking for a guy! Got enough books to fill a library, go to "meet-up"s etc.
David Rubel (1 month ago)
reminds me of the old godzilla movies
Gunasilan Sukumaran (1 month ago)
You're the lovely 😊 Coach Best Of ever made me feel better about this.
natalee songs (1 month ago)
Men need to take the iniatiative and pursue the woman and be romantic, clean, smell good, polite, and sense of humor-men need to call-not ask the lady to call
Maria Holguin (1 month ago)
Everyone has their opinion re this video over 50. Those who aren't over 50 your day is coming. I am enjoying sex very much so! I'm 55 to be exact & dating younger 29, 30 and 38. Safe sex on top of that...I didn't chase either they pursued me! But I would chase a guy why the hell not? If I dropped dead doing the horizontal with him so be it! What a way to go! If guys think women are easy cause we chase -what the hell do we call men who have 1 night stands and have their wallet taken?, lol! I still have my periods and don't need any lubes to get me going. I'm sure my arid days are coming, but until then I say, "ride on girls" ! We are older, wiser not dumb and dead! Whether you want to be in a relationship or not we all have baggage in some cases trunks. It's how we carry our baggage/trunks! Enjoy yourself -don't criticize anyone for having or not having it over 50!!!
Gabriel Davidson (1 month ago)
How about NOT having sex until you're married? So, you're going to Hell and taking others with you...Congratulations Jezebel...Is your hubby named Ahab??
Jason Maggard (1 month ago)
OMG - Don't call him and Don't have sex UNTIL you know what his long term plan is for you???? Stopped Watching. Married twice and divorced twice - why would I want to get engaged? I've got money, have my own part time business that pays very well and love to travel and am active. I want a fricken girlfriend (and yes I will be exclusive were 50 for goodness sakes) - not another wife to order me around like a puppy. FYI - guys over 50....if you are at least a 6 (out of 10) you can part time date women in their late 30s and early 40s - no its not creepy - they like we are not crazy risk takers or loose cannons and usually own some stuff.
Thomas D (1 month ago)
I chased long enough,if she wants me better start asking. I assume everyone else is married, if your not speak up.
Thomas D (9 days ago)
Anna Mossity You don’t have to run to chase someone, just long enough to ask if your interested in dinner
Anna Mossity (9 days ago)
Thomas D, hey, hey! Only time I run is when being chased! Guess I’m just not that easy to catch. 🤷‍♀️ Silly video!
Andre Rolaf (1 month ago)
Any normal man does listen to women's date advise...
Flygirl (1 month ago)
Thank you SO much for this video. Getting ready to go on my date over 50 and this was right on time! Your work is very needed! 💕
ted meigel (1 month ago)
I am a man. I have been divorced for 18 years. last year I tried dating checked out dating sites. what happened to me a lot of young women approached me on the dating sites wanting a relationship. but I was too smart for that because I knew they were only after one thing a free ride. I dated someone my age not through a dating site just buy a chance meeting. all she could talk about was her three ex-husbands! that relationship only lasted 2 months. I find it relaxing less drama to not date! in my experience women are confused. on the dating sites when you click on a woman you think you might have something in common with they like a man that's funny sensible makes him laugh go for long walks. But in reality that's all a lie they don't want that. so I stopped dating. Now I hire a professional. much easier no drama less stress I love my life. I would love to meet a woman my age and live the rest of my life with my friend lover companion. I believe all men and women want that. I just haven't found it yet and I am not going to bother to try looking for it anymore. Too much drama.
Positive Vibrations61 (12 days ago)
You are looking at the wrong woman. Try again. BTW I am over 50, not looking for a husband but someone who wants to love and be loved in return.
tony pucheta (1 month ago)
Hi Im jaki chiqui haha go to heaven jaqki haha
House of Banelord. (1 month ago)
Why marry someone over 50? What the point of that?
TeeMoff Tees (1 month ago)
No man other that a total loser would date a woman over 50, even if he is 100.
Dan Willis (1 month ago)
You date a woman and innocently place your hand on her lower back and 35 years later she claims sexual harassment. Not worth the trouble.
Luc Del Casale (1 month ago)
This is not dating advice..its just manipulative techniques for women to hoodwink men into marriage..Men..wake up to their tricks. Unlike Men ,women just cant remain single to work on achieving personal goals and been amazing individuals..its not in their nature...theyd rather be energy vampires.
Edwin Simpson (1 month ago)
I really took issue on several points on this video... I for one have been married twice and have been single for the past 20 years...I have grown into my thinking that going into a date or meet up with no expectations as it is human nature to find faults in why the person will not measure up... Celebrating the differences is how I have evolved into the opposite Neanderthal thinking of what my parents have taught me... I have the mindset of looking at me when things don't work out with a woman and what I did wrong in that relationship so I don't repeat the mistakes of my past... Im not interested in being married again but I am interested in finding a life partner who share similar interests and open to new experiences.... Im not asking to go sky diving with someone, although Ive been in the past but hey lets take a ride on a motorcycle and visit places we've have never seen before... I will be 60 on Jan 24th, 19 and believe the journey has just begun for me.... I welcome any comments positive or negative that will help further my view as I am a teacher and student of my life's journey.... Peace Love and Respect to all....
Louise (1 month ago)
If she wants to have sex and the guy is actually able and capable to have sex, she should go for it. And not all woman want to get married. It's ok to have a friend or a few friends with benefits.
Wade Cahill (1 month ago)
hey for all you women watching this video, as a man who has been married for 28 years and now separated, personally speaking,my opinion is anyone who remarries is a sucker for punishment, if it didn't work out before why go thru it and be hurt again??? any women who thinks a man over 50 doesn't know exactly what to say to get you under the covers is a foolish women!! we can and will say what you want to hear just to get you under the covers, an experienced man knows what you want to hear, every smart man who has been there and done it will not commit again because any smart man who has lost his money and kids and home the first time and does it again is a sucker for punishment also, as a man I would just want a companion to share some quality time with only, no girlfriend, no commitment, no where are you, why haven't you called, why this, why that bs, that's the biggest turn of for a man because that's exactly what the ex wife used to do and that will remind us instantly of the ex, you women can't avoid this if you expect a commitment from a man! I will never ever remarry any women even If she was younger and hot looking, no way, I will be faithful to a companion because that's me, I have never cheated on my ex but I will never want or have a live in girlfriend especially a divorcee, the last thing any man wants is another man's left overs, I might sound rude and if I am I'm sorry but it's the truth, I'm being honest.there is a joke us men are all familiar with and it goes like this, what do you call a women who has lost 90 percent of her brain? a divorcee!! we know 80 percent of divorced women are going thru mid life crisis especially 40 and over, we know you all want to be 18 again and find love again we know all this so what do you think the first thing we men will tell you over a romantic dinner??? oh you look so beautiful?? you have the most infectious smile, your eyes are georgous etc etc, we know what you are waiting to hear so wake up and smell the coffee because after a few weeks or months guess what! well be saying its been really nice knowing you I can't stay in this relationship because I'm falling in love with you but I can't do it, I'm so sorry, as bad as it sounds this is a fact and it happens every single day, I hope I haven't hurt any girls feeling by saying what I said but I wish you all the very best and hope you do find true love
Genevieve Lawrence (25 days ago)
I was married for 26 years and then separated as well. Not everyone wants marriage again. Companionship would be ideal for a lot of us over 50. Finding that person who feels the same is difficult. Dealing with loneliness is easier!
Garth Paul (1 month ago)
Hey Jaki, cool video. Couple of things to run by you. My last relationship - close to 10 years ago (we went out for close to a year), then she got busted - she was married. Blew my trust big time. Last date I went on, about 2 years ago, took her out for lunch on my motorbike, whole time she was social media - where she was having lunch, no cross table conversation. Really pissed me off. I live in New Zealand, this happen else where as well?. Just about ready to give up, I feel I don't even try anymore.
Mark M (2 months ago)
Absolute best thing you can do is be exactly who you are. Nothing contrived. Show your true “colors”. Be picky if that is who you are. Last thing you want to do is pretend to be someone you’re not.
Richard Morley (2 months ago)
Harley cheaper and you can change a Harley
Laura Lusk (2 months ago)
How about women dating women? I am not into men, at all.
Timothy Tonole (2 months ago)
Don't call him... Lol! Trust me we are not going to chase you. You better show some interest.
Joe Jones (2 months ago)
I am a retired widowed, white male age 67. I own my home and have zero debt. My hobby is to travel. I would like to find a slut type of woman to be my partner. Any interest?
istra70 (2 months ago)
All this advices about look ( face lift, silicone ...), behaviour or acting are shallow and short lived. No one is getting more attractive with age - unfortunately. But there is one thing .... Most important part of women ( for man ) is her soul - on which women are seldom working or being advised...... There is nothing more rewarding then when two souls enjoy each other company....... then bodies just follow....
Cathrine Katsigianni (2 months ago)
Yuck, disgusting!!!!
Cathrine Katsigianni (2 months ago)
You are going on about dating mature men, that's limiting! What ? Not being picky? No, I am not watching the video because that type was not for me! No, I won't keep an open mind the wayvyou are saying! date a bold fat guy whereas I have to keep fit and beautiful! You bring women's worth 100 years back!!!Yuck!!!
Stephen Clarke (2 months ago)
OMG! I expected this to be a comedy. She's actually serious. LOL! Like anyone over 50 would actually want to date. LOL, LOL!!!
Heart2HeartBooks (2 months ago)
I took the Red Pill before watching this.
Sinelari كافرة (2 months ago)
What does marriage have to do with anything over 50? Committed? Fine. Marriage? Ridiculous.
Donnie Luc (2 months ago)
My gal flat out told me I'm a wonderful man, but she didn't want to take any responsibility for me if I became ill; nor give any kind of commitment. So I told her to take a hike!
Jacqueline Polychronakis (2 months ago)
Oh what a load of crap.
Jimmy Brice (2 months ago)
i have always disliked the rules based upon the sex of the person. why should men pay ? why should men do the calling ? etc. etc. i would like to see a more even-steven right across the board. and to be honest, my "rules" do not change based upon the age of the person. cuz i have few rules. just be yourself, dont use the other person, and dont let the other person use you. IT IS REALLY JUST THAT SIMPLE.
Sirirat Chinranat (2 months ago)
Wow...I love you're smile..
InhumanCondition (2 months ago)
Ladies over 50 and single? Remember as feminist have been saying: You are a strong, intelligent, self-reliant woman and do not need a man for anything! So shut up and enjoy it! MGTOW = FREEDOM. And for the record, no flirting any woman has ever done has turned me on as much as when I walk into the door of a Gun Show.
Katinka Katinka (2 months ago)
I better not comment after seeing all these replies... just be yourself and honesty generous. We are talking about a fragile topic here.
Cat W. (2 months ago)
I had a man try and put on the moves on me kind of soon without doing all that much to earn it. After a few times of doing this and me not putting out, he faded away. If you don't make it easy for some of these the guys to get laid, watch how fast they give up and move on to the next target. Fine with me. I'm done with weird situationships. Then I found out from a friend he was driving hours away to meet someone he met on a dating site. We had a good laugh: "Paonia is a long way to drive for pu**y." Sorry for language, but you'd have to know my friend and I.
GERALD FLORES (2 months ago)
Hi. I'm 57, married to same woman I fell in love with when I was 22. I'm watching these videos to learn how things have changed while I've been on the sidelines...34 years married, and very happy!
Mark Jacob (2 months ago)
I'm 45 single male, been years since dating after ex ripped what we had apart..but at my age being single for years I don't even know where to start or anything..been out of it all for some years..just did not feel the desire for longest time to even think of being with someone else..now I am and so lost..feel my social skills have suffered ..all I ever wanted was a sweet down to earth wife..but somebody under 45 I'm guessing..I'm open if I find her attractive inside and out..
Sassy W (2 months ago)
CANT GET A ANSWER FROM NO CHANNEL. CAN YOU HELP PLEASE???? I was endured (severely). Sex was concentual till he got tough and I was saying NO NO STOP. I did not report it or go the ER I am widowed and have 3 adult children I couldn’t tell them. I know it’s wrong now but that’s how I felt at the time. When I’m talking injured I’m talking ripped baaad. Of course it probably scar tissue now but sure I can’t satisfy a man sexually now. I know there’s other ways but my question how do I bring this up to a man?
Jelizabeth Petrie (2 months ago)
I keep an open mind. Don’t date with an objective. Except for fun.
Chip Gaasche (2 months ago)
She sounds like a goofy twenty-something.
Chip Gaasche (12 days ago)
+maria a I merely stated that she sounds like a goofy 20-something..and she does.
maria a (12 days ago)
Chip, ask open ended questions and you might find out something.
Chip Gaasche (12 days ago)
+maria a let me guess, maria..YOU'RE a goofy twenty-something, too? Lol
maria a (12 days ago)
No she doesn't. She sounds nice and wise.
Heart of Love (2 months ago)
As for feminine exercise, possess a rock solid bottom, and a very tight you know what. Anything more is God's gravy on my potatoes. Good luck, girls. Maybe one of you is worthy of me.
codzydee (2 months ago)
If you are still sexually active still love sex then date if not don't date that simple! 😁
B T (2 months ago)
What a bunch of garbage. You are really doing a disservice to women.
Ric Rovey (2 months ago)
I'm 63 and most women my age are blobs and don't take care of themselves.
Nomadic Fenceman (2 months ago)
So you're gonna make me wait a whole month huh? Okay, but it's gonna be another month or two before I'll be ready to go again. While touching my forearm telling me how great Iam , how's bout a lil back scratch

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