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THIS Is How She Wants You To TEXT HER | A Girl's Advice On What To Text A Girl & Get A Date

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In this video, Nicole teaches you how to text a girl so you can get a date. Claim your free Conversation Cheat Sheet here: ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/conversation-cheat-sheet-ng/ Now that you have her number, do you really know how to text a girl to get the date? Nicole shares her wing girl wisdom about texting girls! You'll discover how simple it is to text her and NOT GOT REJECTED all the time! Getting her number isn't the finish line. You still have to secure the date! The question is: What is the best what to text her? What text message should you send? Well, Nicole, will show you how girls actually want you to text them... You'll know what to text her, when to text her, and how to get that date. This method will get you the date nearly every time. So take out your pen and paper and write this down - because it's going to change your texting game forever... Nicole shows us all the DO's and DONT's when it comes to messaging and texting. She'll explain how important it is to HAVE A PLAN. How to show MASCULINITY and CONFIDENCE even through your text. Make sure you make it to the very end of the video... Nicole explains what made one guy's actions stand out from all the others! Essentially, its what wins women over! Nicole shows: ► What texts women HATE THE MOST. You'll ruin all your chances if you send this to her, so DON'T MAKE THAT MISTAKE. ► How to show ASSERTIVENESS, CONFIDENCE, and MATURITY through your messages. These are traits that women ABSOLUTELY ADORE. ► The best kind of texts that will most likely get you the date. ► The number one way to make you stand out from all the other guys! Want to learn how to talk to women the right way? Click here to claim your free Conversation Cheat Sheet: ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/conversation-cheat-sheet-ng/ ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- See the Boot Camp Schedule Here: ► http://daygametraining.com/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.com Find our blog here: ► http://www.theattractiveman.com/ The Attractive Man is an international dating company famous for teaching “Deep Authentic Attraction.” It was founded by Matt Artisan and since has trained men in the art of attraction in over 40 different countries around the world. Claim your free Conversation Cheat Sheet: ►►► http://theattractiveman.com/f/conversation-cheat-sheet/ ################################################################################################### MORE FROM THE ATTRACTIVE MAN Subscribe to The Attractive Man YouTube channel here: ► https://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=theattractiveman1 PLAYLISTS TO HELP IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE: How To Talk To Girls ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxWdbKfbjojUujXJBEe5ghH Mindset and Inner Game ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwwJPmg5yUKmAf7-hlklj9IH Infield Approaches ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwxy9S_wdH6lkKG4JdtnrlwK How To Be Charismatic ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyqQsjWYl6Lq1CvAmjoXHOL Advanced Dating Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyu9AuzX1fGZRjFppTCqC43 Advanced Demonstrations ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyrwmn5UsZSYehnMHHP_Nmo Texting & Phone Tips ► https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL81KCO2IOpwyVK7GFWXJvtSKOnBYXSFgl ################################################################################################### Want more dates? Check out the Bootcamp schedule here: ► http://daygametraining.com/ Want 1-on-1 private coaching? Then click here: ► http://1on1datingcoach.com Claim your free Conversation Cheat Sheet: ►►► http://www.theattractiveman.com/conversation-cheat-sheet-ng/
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The Attractive Man (11 months ago)
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Steve A (6 days ago)
The Attractive Man Ps why do girls always say they are busy this week but can do next week even if you’ve txt them on a Sunday or Monday?????????? Every time!!!!!
Steve A (6 days ago)
*I like to call a girl on telephone/mobile but in most cases a lot of girls may not be brave enough to answer!!!! And will then wait for a txt!*
Derek (19 days ago)
Tried to download the Cheat sheet - NOTHING by email (in any folder). Paid the bonus course. Money sent. Email with link. Hit the link - NOTHING. I call SCAM. WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bruno lopes (28 days ago)
yeah..... asks for name and email..... never receve enything...
Nobody Important (30 days ago)
That moment you're a mute...
Rashad Greaves (1 day ago)
The cheat sheet It's not downloading
Hey get you a mic and take a step away from the wall
ron cuthrell (1 day ago)
At my age,if they show up for a date I feel fortunate
henkarars (1 day ago)
When you texting the girl, you gotta make sure that you meet up again... or some other guy will take her.
Gtrnis Official (2 days ago)
I cant call if so my parents will hear and yeah ;-;
Colorado_koolaid (3 days ago)
How to text women. Step 1 text her, hey how's your day going? If she texts back and asks you how your day is going then proceed to step 2. Step 2: send a dick pic
kummer4523 (3 days ago)
women that base a relationship off of a text are women that I want nothing to do with...so f...ing childish
Mateusz Wolff (3 days ago)
Its nice that you give tips and all the internet. It maybe let people try to go out. I want to mansion that its still crazy coz depends on lot of things aespecially when u get intense chemical reaction on someones face. Hiting girls is no problem hiting womans is no problem but make something when you crashed even when it goes good its so hard i feel like my heart wanna go out of my chest and i cant explain so early what i feel and i act like so strange so she dont want meet me...coz there is a lot of guys on mail box school work everywere going for her she dont think why u act like that she think you are weak. Its like some guy wanna thread you and beat thinking hes better just like that like caveman and you are kung fu master just dont wanna fight. This guy thinks you are pice of shit. She think you are pice of shit and waste of time when you really care about relation. You know what i mean? Think all about she thinks all this complicated behavior when she dont care who you are and what you feel maybe you have feelings for example. Later she ends with some jerk and you can even blame youreself. I wrote a lot but maybe it makes no sense. Maybe i dont wanna competition think how to act and next move coz i live for every second to think about her and its set up not my fuckin choice. The biggest parody is when you know for sure she crushed too and she still turns arround and complains that shes aloone or where is love. Womans are so scared of love that they whant that go this easy way. Just meet with rational decision like this guy has the money. Or he knows where he take me out he just want to met so much is not nice way. Or he waits that maybe you can call to is so no point. Why you should do that? Didnt get intese orgasm yet so no way ha? You see i dont wanna even think about it just gest busy with other things like playin guitar or run in the forrest with wolves... I cry more after Robin Williams than after my ex.
Tm X (3 days ago)
Texting a girl these days is like winning the lottery. Hey whats up wanna hang out? - Not special enough, she wont answer. You tell her how beautiful she is. - Not special enough, you are the 100th guy who texted this to her today, no answer. You tell her a joke. - Yeah cool dude, but not enough.... You text her an icebreaker text. - She read knows them all already, guess what? NO ANSWER
big nigga (3 days ago)
Fuk all this !!ust hire an escort .. honestly the same amount of money you're going to spend taking these women out on a date.. you're going to spend less with an escort lol
Alex Gomez (4 days ago)
She really offended men When showing Simpson cartoon how dare you!!! Stupid bitch, shes such an ass
Bonke Beekay (4 days ago)
Nice video, I watched these videos times and times but nothing worked. Now i'm madly inlove with my babymama and i don't have to do these things, we're just a happy couple
Edwidge Whatsosons (4 days ago)
Phones were not invented to talk to women. That's just ridiculous.
Edwidge Whatsosons (4 days ago)
You're attractive but maybe too intelligent and picky. Making valid points aside you'd be high maintenance. They're not interested in you after they get to know your personality.
mark smith (4 days ago)
If you meet someone and the attraction and chemistry is there for both of you and you’re both looking for the same thing there is no need to play games.
Valeriy Ovchinnik (4 days ago)
OK I was out of dating game for several years to focus on my career... So it 2019 to get a date (and get laid) all you need is to CALL a girl up? Damn expectations have really went through the floor, thanks for the tip.
M Tomo (6 days ago)
that sneezing guy must have been really desperate
sanesaint jhonson (6 days ago)
I can't even get one to wave to me on video nevermind nothing but a bunch of fakes on the internet
NvDubs250 (7 days ago)
Valentino's? Someone lives near Nebraska 😭
pakcik ong (7 days ago)
Why men always have to do the hard one to a girl ..
Life Is Timeless! (7 days ago)
After watching this video I realize that dating anybody these days is a complete waste of MY time. I mean fuckin wow! A trivial text will throw you on such a loop? You can rest assured you'll have no trouble out of me. 🖕
Mohammed Gangat (8 days ago)
The only issue is being married setting up a time to meet a girl is a bit difficult...😬😬😀😀😀😀😀
Max Kent (8 days ago)
I'm honest with my texting--how I want to sleep with her right away.
jake nelson (8 days ago)
Is bumble a thing? That was cute AF!
mark hill (8 days ago)
To all the guys that watch this video. Check out AMS video. He has everything you need to do, and why it happens
Conrad Munoz Jr (8 days ago)
Don't text her. Call her and talk
The man is here (9 days ago)
So no dick pic for the first text, got it.
forseth11 (9 days ago)
Before seeing this video my go to is to call. I don’t like dealing with The Who text game, so I just call and talk for 5 minutes to make small talk and end with a date planned. However... 50% of the time... the girl is shook that I use my phone as intended and gets upset.
Amsterdam House (9 days ago)
Get to the point pfh
Big Rig69 (9 days ago)
Fuck i might turn gay now
TestSubjectDayjob (9 days ago)
A unique compliment: you mean like telling her how elegant her wrist looks when she’s holding a book?
Gabi Diac (9 days ago)
God, you're ugly, I can't watch it
jaspal singh (10 days ago)
Bullshit video
Explore17 (10 days ago)
1. Compliment her! 2. MAKE PLANS! 3. Call her!
Michael Ledford (11 days ago)
lmao try asking a girl out with social anxiety
Mark Morgan (11 days ago)
From a guy point of view, the reason for the "Let's hang out sometime" text is because we don't want to see too forceful. We are leaving it in your decision if you want to see us again or not. Nothing really to do with not being able to make a decision. We don't know your boundaries or limits to any relationship, so we try to take the safest route possible so we don't seem forceful or creepy.
Rafa Vilaga (11 days ago)
Okok I am here because of you, you have the cutest voice. Well I am hoping that maybe we could hang out sometime? Maybe at valentino's? I dont even know your number, but you can give it to me if you want, so I can call you though. Hope it'll work!
Rafa Vilaga (11 days ago)
Wait.. I sounded creepy tho
Efren Velazquez (12 days ago)
It's social media that messes girls and guys up. Texting destroys relationship s. Also, all this suit is common sense to me since I was like 6 yrs old.
parkourbeastsvlogs98 (12 days ago)
Today a girl came up to me to say hi to me !!!! Was so encouraging I didn’t have to nudge my finger other then to exchange my number
Minsoo Kim (12 days ago)
how long should you talk to a girl before asking her out? Bc one of my friend said 1 and a half month to 2 months is my friend right?
Seth Scholder (12 days ago)
I wonder...is it possible the way you reacted to the concept of the "Let's do something some time" date request is the sort of example of why this stuff is complicated to begin with? Perhaps it's not indecisive? Perhaps one girl advised the guy to not ask for a specific day and time and place because it "comes on so strong like the guy is so needy and so in a rush to do something". And then there is the broader idea....the whole fact that as a guy id guess most of us WANT to have something work out, with the least amount of stress and complicated introduction as possible. It's awkward enough anytime a first contact is made, but guys know that if the girl messaged them and said let's get together sometime, he would be optimistic and think "this girl is actually trying to like a guy, not find out what's wrong prior to meeting him. I mean how little can you really gain from this text to ask to do something? How many guys do girls know that they would be willing to go out with....may even have a ton of good reasons for things to work out ...but the guy who texted wrongly is not even worth the possible consideration? I understand that this channel is contrary to this point but here goes: wouldn't it just be easier to have any of this work out if both parties openly WANTED things to work out enough that they wouldn't try to find red flags and instead focused on the positive side of being asked our in the first place? Silly me I guess. Happy dating ! 🦄🐉
Bastete (12 days ago)
youre gonna want to avoid keeping your phone with your cell data on by your side when you sleep cause that shits killing you too so this guy basically taught you to turn off your phone while you sleep.
Sirje Mägi (12 days ago)
Scott Giles (12 days ago)
Women say a whole lot of unnecessary words to get their point across which resulted in me getting impatient because I have to sit through rambling to get a tiny bit of information that I already know
Christian Juneau (12 days ago)
Bboy Newsboy (13 days ago)
Does she have a twitch in her left eye
Praveen Doni (13 days ago)
Hi about my (ex) now a days she always reply in single txt.. Or something hurting replies.. And sometimes she txt and talk so gud, and sometimes she won't even care.. Until I txt or cal.. Eat ever if I ask.. In a angry mood she will answer.. Help me plz..
9:36 Maybe she's busy. Too funny!
Anonymous Individual (13 days ago)
Well you don't ask the fish how to fish. You ask the fisherman.
Dickson Okumu (13 days ago)
I want to ask you a question, do you have a boyfriend or a man? If so how did you get into his box coz it seems you know much about text and how men should be texting their girlfriends, if you know all this which language did your man use to get you or you just gave in?
Sean O'Halloran (14 days ago)
Great video. I loved the ending. Nothing beats a phone call. 💯
elad shamai (14 days ago)
I had the habit to call immediately after getting the number, instead of texting. Days have passed and it made me think maybe I'm a bit old-fashioned, so I gave up and used WhatsApp instead. This video makes me want to go back to phone calls again! Thanks Nicole :) PS I have confidence (at least that's what my mom says)
Александр К (14 days ago)
All girls are whores. And I look at this woman, only then that I learn English.
larry flores (15 days ago)
The best thing I guy can do is instead of wooing her, have her woo you.  If you act needy or too anxious that will turn the girls off. Just be yourself, have confidence, make positive moves with your life and have a plan.  Move forward with no hate, ego and addictions and you will truly be free and people will be drawn to you like moths to a flame.
Jan Kvapil (15 days ago)
Is too many emojis really that bad?? They're kind of my thing and goes with my personality.
Aboozar Rajabi (17 days ago)
what if we make a plan, and she tells she's not available (for any reason)? It's not cool to offer her another date and another one continuously
Ricky Ticky (17 days ago)
"Yea make plans. Be confident, do everything right" what does that really means. Yea calling them is a good technique but what's the background. Teach us the real techniques to get you real interested. Texting you in the phone means nothing. Aaaagh I guess I'm talking to the wrong pickup guru. Like the old saying. Never listen to the fish always listen to the fishermen.
arledge gameing (17 days ago)
So I accendeally did the fails instead of what she said to do
DatsyukOn94 (18 days ago)
Text messages and the sneezing seem fake I don't appreciate it
olie tim (18 days ago)
Such a waster of time, she's just stating out what SHE doesn't want guys to receive as a text.
Joe Putnam (18 days ago)
Thanks Nicole.
The Shaolin (19 days ago)
She actually wants me to text her the pin of my offshore bank account
Nick R (19 days ago)
How about you women grow up and ask a man for once.
2 of my previous girlfriends ,actually didn't care about none of these rules. They liked me so much that they actually made plans. All I had to do was show up. I used to text my latest girlfriend provocative pics of myself. (Not naked, but sexy and provocative ). And she loved it. One girlfriend actually had a car while at the time I didn't (probably her mom's car... ). And ask me to drive her around in her car. For my latest girlfriend; I would take her out to eat at a restaurant I like sometimes; and sometimes she would pick a restaurant she knew.😎😘✌
Erwin Stolzenko (19 days ago)
You should first get a good makeup, or better get rid of this horrible makeup - you look like death. Then you can say and preach whatever you want
ns, getting kids into sex and violence YouTube needs sorting! Ban hoes from the street and Internet plus having phones!
Mr. Makaveli (20 days ago)
You are fucked princess 👎
Max Lave (20 days ago)
Women you’re not important at all in our lives, so fuck off, I don’t give a damn shit about you. By the way I’m not gay or any bullshit like that, I just enjoy being single and do fuck I want to do. We’re not here to make you please and happy. Bunch of gold diggers fuck off. Keep your bullshit for your self. I know there are some pussy men out there you can control them but not all men !
heyzeus christos (20 days ago)
just learn how to triple backflip a motorcycle instead. girls love that shit
Everyday Products (20 days ago)
Txt her how much money you got on your bank accojnt
Chris Russo (20 days ago)
HINT: If her phone is ON at 4 a.m. when trying to sleep...I have no use for her!!!! TURN OFF UR PHONE!!! If I come over I don't want the girl I am with answering texted from her EX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Youngboye BAM (21 days ago)
Can just make plans with a dumb hoe that's interested but just want to play with you Man niggas ain't tryna call and waste time Caken on the phone with saying something you can Text
Viktor Wolfe (22 days ago)
You're supposed to text this is the address bar: Viktor Wolfe. And then check out my cool Stephen King book reviews. :)
rhymeswithteeth (23 days ago)
I'm guessing she slept with the guy that phoned her.
Mike Lopez (23 days ago)
How the heck does telling what not to do help? Only tell us the do’s the fonts are irrelevant!
Nicholas Lu (23 days ago)
Women need to be challenged too. They are more entertained and become more interested when you challenge them. I'm only guessing...
LiNingAir (24 days ago)
Man I really hate this girl's conceited personality... I feel bad for any guy who has to put up with her on a regular basis in the future. No amount of sex is enough to offset anything like this. Guaranteed a divorce.
Scott Sanders (24 days ago)
You asked why guys can't seem to make a decision???... Take it from an Old School Gentleman, it's the feminazi's and men haters that have made it impossible for young men to know exactly how to handle meeting someone new and making something out of nothing.... And, considering todays atmosphere, I'm amazed there's any dating going on anywhere!!!... Between the feminazi's and the brainless bleeding heart Libturds, any single straight man, without any dating prospects, is terrified to even speak to a woman, muchless ask her out, plus women like the chase, the courtship, and the romance, but most men just want the "Act" or the "Sex", but an intelligent man will have the "Pepe LaPew Philosophy" - "Getting there is half the fun"
ThetaSource (24 days ago)
it was weak
Matt Bishop (25 days ago)
Thank you for the insight. I want to improve my communication effectiveness because I date ladies to find a special partner I can love not just for a hook up.
Ya Boi Diglett (26 days ago)
My first text is telling her to sub to Pewdiepie and scream "tseries is gay" while she is on vacation so pewds will get more exposure so I did my part to help pewdiepie I am so proud yey
If anybody has some advice to help me get over the fact that I just can't fucking believe how God damn fucking picky women are about every goddamn fucking thing you know like think about it are dude sitting there be like fuck no I'm not fucking with that chick she misspelled some shit not text fuck no I mean it's just like God damn I'm supposed to sit here and treat women as equals and see them as equals and all this God damn shit and and like they literally fucking nuke dudes over misspelled
Also I guess dudes are similarly picky when it comes to women's looks huh so women's can be picky as fuck about a deuce style of texting and we got to be picky as fuck about shit they don't have that much control over
I guess I would just tell myself to harden the fuck up and be bigger than the game and direct all the toxic energy I have and my perceived unfairness of shit into bettering myself
wolf2966 (26 days ago)
I was always told never call the hell???
The one Freeman (27 days ago)
"Btw if you haven't subscribed YET don't forget to. I need you to sub to me. Give me your soul. Don't make your own choices, do what I say. SUB TO MEEEEE!!!!!" <- This is the biggest thing I got from this video. Great tips though, but... that. I call it "begging for subs" and I never sub to people who do.
Andrei Buda (28 days ago)
You will fuck anyway untill the end so, why don't you fuck on the first or second date? Ur so brainwashed by the TV like all the "new-age feminist girls" it is all psychological background. Nowadays girls are very very very stupid and arogant, the only person they love in this life is...their own person, themselves, so,my conclusion is...it is absolutely everything about sex and blowjob do u understand?, it's only lust and pleasure but they are covered in this "love" word, there's no tipic, u fucking brainwashed arogant and sex addicted glamorous girl, for example i know a friend who just meet a woman spent some time with her, just natural, with no template thinking and this new age bullshit and then he said to her: Are you lonely, wanna marry? Marry me! And after few days he received the confirmation and now they have four kids and a meaning of life, instead of you all brainwashed youtube girls who looking for " dynamic young Tarzan in his white cabrio, well groomed and perfect body" to appear and all you have is sex and abortions and dissapointings...turn off the TV and read u fuckin piece of shit, read and get out from your mental prison! Glamorous, catalogue princess who are hiding in your celophane world, in glitter town fucked and abandoned because you spread a "lusfull energy around you" don't teach us anything, there's no template, there's no rule, there is no law in love, there's no love...it's only sex, lust and pleasure all covered in this "love" word. Remeber that!
Mohamed firaz (29 days ago)
thank u for sharing 👌
Aaron Miller (29 days ago)
I’d rather be alone than play all these games just to get someone to text me back.
Abiy Kuza (29 days ago)
I asked her let's date and she say I don't date but let's do it as a friend. I say ok. And I keep her as a friend and dating others now she wants to date with Me. Girls are confused.
The Attractive Man (28 days ago)
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
You're extremely pretty. The man in an ongoing relationship with you is absolutely lucky.
Elchimex (29 days ago)
I’ve always had the worst times when calling girls. Either they are busy, or with friends and family or on a date. Just makes it awkward.
J Garcia (29 days ago)
Get the book Texting for Dummies
Hleroklite (29 days ago)
my advice, ASK GIRLS OUT IN PERSON. texting is much easier to mess up
Leo Spartan (29 days ago)
Calling?! How weird! Lol
M Shabir (29 days ago)
Okay baby
firawood (29 days ago)
Ayyy that one guy asked for Valentino’s? Are you in Lincoln?
The Attractive Man (28 days ago)
I recommend sending me a DM on IG @mattartisan we can discuss there
Random Ronaldo (29 days ago)
Why the fuck you girls have so much attitude
Smyle the Artist (30 days ago)
Lol if she don’t like memes 😂 I don’t like her
Bruce Courtney (30 days ago)
If a girl would ever actually ANSWER THE FREAKIN PHONE!!! I’ve called a girl, left a message only to have her text me right back and not be up to anything at all. “Sooo you’re not busy, but you won’t talk on the phone??”
J Gomes (30 days ago)
wanna learn text game follow RSD Jeff

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