How do you attract men?
What are men looking for when they decide who to approach? Are your flirt signals really working? Is there something you can do to seem more open and likable? How can you let a guy know you are interested and encourage the right kind of interaction?
At least 60% of our overall communication is through body language and nonverbal communication. If you want to know how to decode the men in you life --your partner, boss, colleague, friend then you've come to the right place!
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Vanessa Van Edwards is Lead Investigator at Science of People — where she unlocks the formulas and patterns behind human behavior for hundreds of thousands of students in over 200 countries. She is the national bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding With People, available in 14 languages around the world. Her work has been featured on CNN, NPR, BBC, Fast Company and dozens more.
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Has a guy ever missed the flirting signals you were trying to send them? What happened? Were you able to start a conversation or did the moment pass you by?
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Women can almost always tell when men are lying. So why do they keep attempting it? And for the record, if a man has beautiful sculpted male hands, it's much more interesting than his butt. But I guess that's just me
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Well I am fascinated by how many men say they don’t find “high maintenance” attractive and they end up with them every. single. time. This also applies to the “crazy/stalker” types who men also claim to want nothing to do with. Have you done research on that ? I would be so interested because most of the ladies I know who are normal, well adjusted, charming, approachable are standing around wondering why all the guys are with the women who criticize, stalk, etc, etc.....
This gentleman is so funny every time he says something it's funnier than the last! I could so easily get along with this guy I've never seen in my life, but he is freaking hilarious! I got to figure out who the hell this guy is oh my God but seriously it's amazing how one channel has about 500 videos on this and it's the robot giving you bad advice as always. So much contradictory information on YouTube it's absolutely insane.￼
No, no, no, no. Mormon women CHASE mates among the return missionary pool and it is cutthroat. But for Catholic (especially INTJ ) women, if I have to manipulate a man before I am ALREADY sexually intimate in order to attract him, then this automatically disqualifies him as a mate. My God. Women UNCONSCIOUSLY express sexual interest without forethought. The man needs the smiles and the open body language that is NATURAL not contrived and that is sufficient to make him pursue.
Women's favorite body part on a man is his wallet.
Male pheromones are scientifically documented to exist. Female pheromones remain theoretical. Behavior changes during estrus may be what is attracting men.
You know what sucks? When you're encouraged to smile and be helpful/friendly to customers but they take it as meaning you're interested. So you think "am I being too friendly" so then you dial back on the friendliness but it doesn't seem to help regardless of what you do.
Hell even when I don't smile I get "the look". Like...out of the blue intense gaze, hardly blinking or kind of unfocused.
One time I was helping someone I barely even looked at. I was so busy frowning at the computer due to a glitch. I looked up to apologize for the issue only to be shocked by the look on this guy's face. I instinctively leaned back a bit. I wanted to ask if he was okay. Dude was trying to peer into my soul. There's _no_ reason to look at someone you don't really know *_that_* intimately.
Another example. My colleague helping a male customer set up an account. I hear her voice, then his. Shrug, business as usual. Happened to glance over...this dude...had his body completely turned towards me, just looking at me as if I had been talking to him. Confused, thinking maybe my colleague had called me for help or something I look at her. She's just typing away on her computer, entering information...so what in the actual...fucc?!
I've noticed that when some, not all, dudes come up to my work and have to take identification out of their wallet or pocket, they will maintain eye contact from under their brow as the dig for their info. ??? Why are you looking at me?! Look at your wallet.
Male body language cues from personal experience: intense or hazy gaze, squaring shoulders, tilting up the chin, leaning a bit forward into personal space at times, staring at the mouth, turning their body towards you.
Perhaps in a different setting these would be more welcome but I've learned the heard way how to not be overly friendly and too helpful at work. I lower the pitch of my voice, make brief eye contact before focusing on an eyebrow, glancing away towards my computer screen for a moment. Brief small smile at the beginning along with a basic "hello how may I help", then back to neutral face. Sitting up straight and not leaning over. Among other things. Amazingly it still doesn't work!🤔
So, the above was shown in place of the Lisa Nichols vid in the line up, while I've had Auto-play on... I commented below about this, having noticed a lack of Auto-plays when vids hv bn of people classed as "Black." After This vid... though I still hv Auto-play ON, the vid simply stopped at the end without moving on to the next vid, in a now long list of only V Van Edwards vids. My Q b4 was, basically, "Is this intentional complexionism," YouTube?
I here re-submit the same Q with regard to similar/related forms of "Auto-selection" and
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hi I have this guy in work that also happens to be my boss that seems (sometimes ) to flirt or be flirty or he is just friendly. I have all the raised eyebrows face lighten up when he seems me,leaning forward (very close sometimes ) when he speaks to me ,pointing feet thats not always the same and his hands are on his hips or pockets.he seems to send wrong signals sometimes. Oh yeah and we are both committed
i mainly notice a guy’s eyes, smile/teeth, & chest/arms.
imo, the shape of a guy’s butt & legs are the most trivial & unimportant part of his body. even with long-term ex-partners, i honestly can’t recall ever paying any attention to legs & butt. i’m completely baffled how those ever make the top answers on womens’ surveys.
Tell em why her tongue is pierced, ask even some gay guy (no offense). Vanessa got great advice, looks great but in less than a day I'm done. Go for your alpha male , I live for myself and answer to no one ! Bye
I have advice for all men. Just build your body evenly and possibly work on your back and legs 2 times more then any other body part and doesn't matter what body part you have the females will have a favorite body part of the male on you.
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I think all women notice the chest back and shoulders the most. Those are the traits when displayed correctly will display a Alpha male is in front of them. It is what the animal kingdom has always noticed in any male who knows how to display that trait and shows when a mans interested in a girl. Normally i believe that the female will mirror his actions if she is interested and if he notices it will drive him crazy inside and naturally the flirty courtship will happen.
Vanessa spent about a fifth of the elapsed time talking about male body language. The majority of the video was her recapping female body language. The show hosts distracted her from her focus and did not enhance the experience in any way. Vanessa is intelligent I would suggest finding a better show in which Vanessa can teach the public and plug her book.
mike roshaft said: "ok men don't necessarily miss courtship signals, they just have trouble determining if the signals are genuine or not" - Exactly what I was going to say. Many women - and especially married women - like to test their attractiveness on a regular basis. First, some of us cannot tell if they are genuinely interested or just playing. Second some men don't care and just go for it Some of us might want to see if it is genuine interest, but are not really interested in her, OR we think we might be interested, but then start wondering what kind of nut-case we are going to have to deal with.
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this is why I miss the cues. Subtle hints I don't get.....obvious hints I don't get.........just talk to me and express some words that show an interest. Something like after talking for a bit......"hey, would you like to meet up tomorrow for lunch?" No hints....just direct to the point. Then I can say no, you are a hussy for trying to captivate me with your pheromones
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