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These are plus size dating tips and advice for dating as a plus size or curvy woman. If you are overweight and are having trouble dating this video is for you. Whether you consider yourself thick curvy or BBW this video may be helpful. I say everything in love and I hope no offense is taken.
About 9 months ago a woman wrote me for some dating advice. She also asked me to make this video. And she signed her email duff. D.u.f.f. It was also woven into her Gmail name. Immediately I could tell it was a nickname but it didn’t feel like a source of pride. Most nicknames people give themselves are something cool or positive identifiers. This one felt like a scar.
We had a long back and forth. In her e-mails it became apparent very quickly that she was kind, she was gentle, she was smart, she was funny, she was compassionate, she was caring, she was resilient and she was powerful. Her spirit was so vast.I could tell She was so much more than the title she had given herself whatever it meant. So I asked her what those letters stood for, and she told me. Duff stood for Da Ugly Fat Friend. Because she was the big girl in her group of friends. She was one of the most beautiful minds to ever write me a letter. A title like duff could never summarize her importance to this world.
To her and anyone like her, I just want to say you may be heavy but that's not who you are.
It's not your identity. Your weight doesn’t diminish your value as a person. Please don’t let your imperfections define you. Everyone has them.
You aren’t just some fat girl. No more than I’m just some guy with a little head and crooked bad bottom teeth.
Too much of life is out of our control for you let the things you’ve been given dominion over control you. Life is hard and abusive. Love yourself enough to put up a fight
With that said here are dating tips for plus sized women.
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aqua fina I'm in the same age group as you and went through some of the same foolishness. DON'T GIVE UP!!! I met a guy through a dating app and we recently got engaged. He loves me and all my curves and encourages me to be my best self.
Well Kev...if a man takes us out and seems interested remember ladies...if he's there 99% chance the weight will not be an issue...I am 10X MORE COMFORTABLE AT 200 LBS THEN 130 AT 18 YRS OLD!! SERIOUSLY..WHY? BC MY MAN LOVES IT....HE GETS A BIT SAD WHEN I LOST MY LOVEHANDLES AFTER BEING SICK...BUT THEY'RE BACK!
I got very emotional when you revealed what D.U.F.F stood for. God bless you for making these empowering videos. As someone who is on a self love journey after many years of different types of abuse, your videos keep me on track! I can't thank you enough.🤗
One of things I like to do is draw people in with my pleasant personality. Its almost like once you show people that you're more than just a big butt and thighs they almost fall for you in a sense, I've had coworkers tell me that. And I find that its the same thing with men. At first its just looks and stares until I can engage them in conversation, then we talk and they discover that I am more than what I appear to be, then they like me. It use to bother me so much that no one could see how wonderful I was just at a glance but now it doesn't bother me so much because when people come into my life they stay for a long time. My draw of people is never superficial and it makes my relationships last longer. Thanks for this video Kev and the work that you do ❤
kev im not go even hate on you i know alot of females digs your channel cuz i admit you do promote self love which we all need in this crazy world brah you do spit facts on most topics keep up the good work brah.
I am plus size woman and I met up with a guy at the mall that I was talking to online. He drove up and looked me up and down. Then he said he was going to park his car and come back. He never did. Then I texted him asking how he could do such a horrible thing. Then he responded by saying "next time send body pics". I was absolutely devastated and my self esteem ended up in the garbage.
Also the term BBW is a fetish term and I hate it. I want to be approached by men because they like what they see and they wanna get to know me, not because I'm fat and that's "their thing" or because they think I'll give them less of a challenge to date/fuck. This whole body positivity thing has hurt and helped plus-size women. It's given a lot more of them good self-esteem but at the same time it's greenlit a lot of men to openly(instead of in secret) approach us with super sexually charged come-ons. None really interested in actual relationship. They are now down to openly fuck us, but cuff us? That still seems to be a roadblock
Size definitely matters. I'm approached by some of the trashiest men who think I'm up for random dick every wake hour of my life. I know it has to do with the fact that I'm fat. Dudes with this sad ass stereotype that all fat women are easy and desperate for attention and affections. My skinny counterparts get approached by the occasional piece of shit but not to the extent I always am. There are really no differences between me and my home girls, even our interests (we are all gamers and artists) the only difference is I'm fat, they aren't and I KNOW that's what it boils down to. Its one of the reasons I despise going out to bars sometimes with them unless it's a gay bar. (two are lesbian) because I get approached by drunken gross idiots but they are approached by lawyers, fire fighters, teachers, ceos etc.
It's not like I'm hideous, have shitty attitude or confidence, I don't. I'm usually the one making everyone laugh and making everyone comfortable, I'm pretty, I flirt, I tease a bit but I never come off as "I'm fat somebody love me". But for some reason I am approached by guys who assume that and it's annoying af.
This one time a guy was chatting up my friend at a bar(the only non-nerd haha). He was totallly my type and I even complimented a tattoo he had of one of my favorite video game characters. He kinda looked me up and down (unimpressed? idk lol) with a "thank you" but was still up my friend's ass even though she was low-key brushing him off but still chatting with him. They hooked up a few times and once I was over her place when he hooked up with her. I think they fought or something before it happened I'm not sure because he then walked out of the room looking a bit frustrated and sat on the couch watching the tv as I was reading this manga. My friend was getting ready for "work" (she lied to get him out of the house) but as we sat on the couch he started talking about how he read the whole series I was reading. To which we began having a deep conversation about it and everything else nerdy. We literally had so much in common with various things in the 30 mins I was talking with him. Then he goes "You know...I should have gotten your number that night I met you. You're dope and cute as well". I just said "that's too bad. How unfortunate". He looked so sad but it gave me life lmao Like, it takes his booty call to bail on him to realize I'm the shit? Nahh I don't need that. Sorry this shit long as hell but looks definitely play a huge part. He basically didn't acknowledge me because I happen to be a fat girl. Fat in all the right places to be exact, but "fat" nonetheless so that was a strong no to him. He got blue-balled and basically wanted to recruit me as his last ditch choice. I'll pass.
Remarkable video. I myself is a very curvy woman. I must say, curves are more acceptable now than 10 years ago...... I know for a fact age doesn’t matter when it comes to men loving a woman with curves .
I'm a very curvy female & these tips are on point! 👏🏽The way you speak & convey your thoughts in these videos is always done in a fun, tactful, considerate, respectful way. I admire that. Great job! :)
You just got you a Sub! This is the most gentle and good advice I've heard from a man. Thank you for your advice I divorced 2 years ago and I've been trying to navigate through dating thanks for these videos for someone who was off the market for 11 years
I'm a bigger girl, I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years.
I constantly wonder why he loves me, he works out everyday and always watches what he eats.
I sometimes even compare myself to him.
I've been this way my whole life and it's so hard...
I’m attracted to big fine women who keep themselves up. Hypothetically speaking of course. I’m married though. I have two kids. My wife’s weight fluctuates. Sometimes she’s medium. Sometimes she’s plus sized. I put her fine ass to bed regardless 😈
Hi am Karen I am in a dateing this guy I am with it's not good he sexual abuse me every night so sad .. sad part is am in love with him ' I've been sexual abuse also by another guy as very young age. @ 3 yrs old please write back to me on how to help me and strive all pass begin to move forward
If you’re not willing to leave him no one can help you. You have to practice some self care. A man who is raping you is most likely also hotting you. You need to get the fuck out of that relationship👎🏽
The big girls are the ones that are so damn hypocritical they're the ones the one the guys with the six pack abs okay they don't like the thick brother they want the tall green-eyed light (look at yourself as an example of what I'm saying ) skin good hair washboard abs brother so that's a bunch of BS you look at any of the profiles on POF match BlackPlanet any of the other dating sites and majority of the plus-size girls or BBWs the majority and I can say that with authority they want a man that's tall and then and if I'm lying I'm dying you check it out yourself so this crap that the BBW girls or the thick girls always want to do that shame and they always want to pull that shaming card out and men are shallow because we don't accept them so we're not taking that crap we're not going to allow you to emotionally beat that crap over us anymore we used to do that and feel really messed up over but after Decades of being battered by plus size BBW women and being rejected and kicked to the can when we tried to be nice and poindexter's you women abuse the hell out of us and darkness and dumped us for the pretty boys with the washboard abs so no more mr. Nice guy you plus size girls or BBWs or so full of crap and again Cry Me a River boo hoo hoo call the wambulance so brother I hate to disagree with you respectfully but you need to do your research go on these profiles and you'll see these have to heifers only want thin Brothers this is 2019 men's revolution of zero tolerance of women shaming us and doggin us are over. We've tried to be patient. We've tried to be understanding. We try to be torrent. We're trying to be accepted of their weight issues and understanding. Yet we have to deal with their nasty attitudes. Their Diva issues. Ratchetness. Baby daddy issues. Don't want to cook or don't know how to cook or don't want to cook. Don't know how to clean don't want to clean issues. Inconsiderate. Broke busted because they spent the money on the good-looking guys. You currently tell them that you accept them and they don't believe you and it gets to be really to the point it drives you crazy because of the insecurity issues. And after all you do to try to pamper and spoil them and then they finally lose weight they dump you for who the thin guy every single damn time when they go to the Bahamas or to the Dominican Republic..... see I don't know where you been brother because like I said I know you trying to keep your YouTube numbers up and things are us nature and again please respectfully I'm not attacking you in any way form or fashion but I'm just trying to keep it 100 with you on the other side of the proverbial coin because contrary to popular belief there is another perspective that I'm trying to bring to you and Enlighten you about the hypocrisy of full-figured BBW women that they're trying to perpetuate and they've been doggin men out for years and years and years and I'm saying it's got to stop. With the Advent of the me-too movement and all these other movements have been going on trying to bash man and things this nature enough is enough is enough sure there been a lot of guys that have been emotionally demeaning to women and abusive to women that is true but women have also been abusive to men mentally and physically about their weight issues and other things that is never ever been discussed because when we try to bring it to the Forefront they cancerous pussies and weak. Men are starting to speak up and speak out of the Shadows. Women need to take responsibility for their own actions nobody can do no more or less than you allow them to do! You bring children into the world By the men that are criminals broke and then you bitching complain about how pathetic and pitiful your life is. And then all of a sudden you want to get close to God Don't Lie God you know when you were having an orgasm at the time he was in ejaculating inside of your body and then screaming out God's name then.oooh now you want to be mad at the world same when it comes to food you have to take responsibility for that you can't allow a a spoon fork and knife defeat you all you have to do is step away from the table. And here's a little secret it's not what you're eating its what's eating you. I can say all these things because I used to be almost 500 pounds I had to crawl on my belly on the floor to answer the door for the fire department to get me off the floor it took five Firefighters to help me that's whenI had a Major come to Jesus wake up call... until I looked into the mirror and I had to take responsibility for my actions I need to stop blaming women I had to stop blaming my mother and father I had to stop blaming fail relationships and take responsibility for my actions and my actions alone I lost the weight because I wanted to live! So you have a choice you can either live or you can exist the choice is yours the stop having a pity party and making excuses!
When I put on a few inches around my waist after I had been on a long holiday. My boyfriend (now ex) said to me "your more ugly than duff. Your more ugly than butterface on a pig. There's no way I'm going to be caught in public with you. Get some self respect...have a shower your gross." Before I saw him at lunch, I had been to the gym. I had a shower, and rushed to meet him for lunch. It was a hot day, so I didn't bother using a hairdryer. I was so embarrassed, people were looking at me. One boy googled butterface, and told his friends.
My ex boyfriend posts pictures of animals with my head photoshopped on them, to his friends. He also creates countless Facebook accounts pretending to be one of my friends. He sends me pictures, post passive aggressive comments about me to my Facebook friends. Everytime I block him, a few months later he reappears.
I always wonder if I didn't put on weight, how would he treat me today? Before I put on weight he treated me like a goddess. I did everything I could to make him happy.
You my Dear and that D.U.F.F. lady that wrote you are B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L !!! .. This is an awesome and most positive, much needed message and I'm a big girl too 😙😍❤👍💋 no bologna sandwich here, I'm a Manwich meal😘
You know I was just talking to someone about having bariatric surgery. This was in hopes of eventually feeling enough confidence to actually meet my mate. I am guilty of most of what you described especially the giving up on doing stuff to make myself attractive. Lately I have been working on reinventing me for me only. This video is confirmation for me. I THANK THE LORD FOR YOU AND I PRAY YOU HAVE MANY BLESSINGS FOR REACHING AND CORRECTING THE ERRORS WE AS WOMEN MAKE. YOU ARE TRULY A GODSEND.
Thanks so much for this video. I am a full figured, plus size woman who has struggled with low self esteem for most of my life. As a child, I was criticized about my weight by my own parents ( mother and father). My father was a drug addict who took his misery out on me and made me feel less than. Now I am 50 years old and beginning to realize that the person I am inside is what matters. My mom constantly tells me to this day that no man wants a big woman. I had to remind her that I never had problems with getting a man. My issue was the quality of the men that I was attracting. They were idiots, liars, users. Now I am dating a man who does not look at my weight. He wants to get to know me as a woman. Thanks again Kev.
I’m the first curvy thick woman my bf has been with he’s had the skinny chicks he is in love with me !!! All of me !! And he’s gorgeous! But he had the most precious heart and he’s made several of my dreams come true because he loves me and he respects me he told me he hopes I never change he also said he’s happier now than he’s ever been so don’t knock it till ya try it with a curvy thick chick !
Just came across this. I am a Big Fine Woman. Never had an issue with getting a man. Like he said it's a lot of men who are in love with plus size women. I met my man on Facebook in a group called Men Who Love BBWs it's crrrps on there as well but there are genuine men on there as well. Remember there is always somebody for you. Thanks for the upload😘
well sir thank you for your kind words I am a BBW myself and I've struggled with a lot of that but you got a point there but I can tell you one thing that I can do I can speak three different languages fluently I've 110 karaoke competitions in Fayetteville North Carolina
I don't care how big or how thin you maybe beauty comes from within how you carry yourself and heavy women feel like they're always going to be lonely because of a pretty thin face or body and that it's not so.... the best thing you can do as wear that smile have faith
Lol good video but jus because we are plus size beautiful woman doesn't mean we need a special app to find men lol but the app is cute tho 😊We are woman,no matter our size, and having confidence is the number one thing all woman should have,if your being unsuccessful at love it's because of You,whether it be that your not going out enough to meet people, or your to busy,but it's mainly because alot of woman Dnt think highly enough of themselves,Men love woman,they Dnt see or care about alot of the flaws that affect woman so bad,Men want a woman with confidence no matter her size,its when a female thinks so low of herself that she exudes it without speaking that makes men shy away from that female not her size, if woman started to love themselves wholeheartedly and walked head high with confidence,men would notice no matter the size,im a firm believer because I'm confident in myself and I'm a plus size female size 16 and I've never in my life had a problem getting a man,the problem I had was there was too many to choose from lol so ladies love yourself inside and out and go conquer the world whatever that maybe..but remember there is 1 you so nobody can tell u how or what ur supposed to look like,so if ur not happy with something your the only one who can fix it, make changes and please believe the sky is the limit for everyone.. Subscribe to perfectly imperfect/Tia
+Kev Hick Talks Guys with Girls many thanks for your reply! I reckon that there's a sinister kind of agenda going on in some circles ....it seeks to demean females and suggests that women are no longer 'viable' over a certain age....I have stumbled upon these sites and channels and I get quite dark feelings from them. ....I have been bold enough to put my thoughts out in the comment sections of such videos and have been told to go and kill myself as I'm over 50 and not needed in society anymore....shocking!!
I absolutely do look after myself by working out regularly and eating well....the wonderful glow of youth I once had as a young woman is not there but I do hope that a richer kind of wisdom has replaced it!
😂useless? The man you heard say that shit is useless! The knowledge wisdom and understanding of a woman over 35 can be hypnotizing. I would hardly call a woman who knows thyself useless. A person man or woman if any adult age is only useless if they covet ignorance. If they spread it like a disease. If you want to feel more useful though strive to be at your best. It will give you more opportunities to date and more confidence. If you believe you’re useless you become so, it’s a self fulfilling prophecy. The same goes with power and self worth.
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